Written by Brendan Holland
Finding my style through the lens of fatherhood, freedom and transformation.
Style is something I used to associate with clothing, trends, and how I was perceived by others.
Growing up, I always believed style was about fitting in, following what was popular, and presenting an image that was accepted by society. But as the years have passed, I’ve come to realise that true style goes far beyond the clothes we wear, it’s the embodiment of who we are, how we live, and the values we hold close to our heart.
For me, style has evolved into something much more meaningful. Living on the road with my family and wearing the same few pieces of clothing, I now understand that style isn’t about material possessions, or how we look to the outside world, it’s about authenticity. My style reflects my journey toward freedom, empowerment, and connection. It’s about comfort and choosing clothing that feels aligned with my values, like the natural cotton and linen I wear daily, which resonates with high vibrations and feels true to who I am. Gone are the days of dressing to impress others, now, it’s about dressing for myself, for the life I lead, and for the legacy I want to leave behind.
Style also shows up in how I approach life. Whether I’m facilitating breathwork, holding space in ceremony, or being a father, my style is grounded in being real and raw. In a world where there’s so much emphasis on appearances, my focus has shifted to creating deeper, conscious connections with the people I work with and the family I hold. My “style” is to ruffle feathers, plant seeds of thought, and encourage others to step into their truth, just as I have.
Ultimately, my style has become a reflection of my values. Family, empowerment, and freedom.
It’s about living life with intention, dressing for the life I want to lead, and showing up in my raw, authentic truth. Style isn’t just about what’s on the outside, it is how we live, love, and lead with integrity.
So, as I continue my journey, I invite you to explore what style means for you… Not in terms of trends or fashion, but in the way you express your values and live your truth.